Pull is better than a Push
As the classics Physics problem goes it's always easy to pull a buggy rather than push it under normal conditions.So why does this technical thing come here? I always see people saying you should help people around you and so forth. Ok, I am fine with it. But what frustrates me is this - the so called great people sacrifice themselves and even their lives to help the people around them. Whenever I see them, it only reminds me of the above classic Physics theory.
For me, helping others is always a good thing. But I would suggest you to help only when you are in such a state where you can help. For example, I can't forgo my studies(OK, whichever is your favorite.But here may be this example suits well) to teach some people in the slum. By this again, I don't mean the rich are the only ones to help others.What I intend to convey is only a satisfied and blessed hand should try to hold other hand reaching out for help.So here goes my Pyramid Pull 'philosophy" (PPP).
Think of a pyramid.Take the base area to be the highly populated class and the top tip as the Number One position.So indirectly I mean to say take the area to be proportional to the population and the height from base as the level of achievement.It perfectly suits a practical life. For any desire/goal/wish the number of people with particular level of achievement is always inversely proportional to the amount of achievement i.e., quantity is inversely proportional to quality.
So, for convenience , say, the levels be marked from 1 to 10. Suppose you are now on level 1, you should always concentrate on making yourself to level 2, but not on pushing one of the persons in level 1 to level2 .Remember that the area of level2 is lesser than level1.So if you push a person to level 2 while you being at level 1 then you have reduced your chances to level 2 .As there is no level 0, in this case there is no need of a pull.
Now take the case of you being on any level from 2 to 9.Now again the same theory follows against pushing a person to the top level.But here comes a new situation.Now, you can pull your friend from lower level to your level.Before that first make yourself to the top level.Thereby you get the chance of building a network which helps you in future.Also you can make it spread by saying the person on your lower level to pull a person in the even lower level to him.Thereby your chain sustains.With help from the person on the top of the chain entire chain propagates and each and everyone advances to the levels above.And because, the person on top of chain had to make a lot of effort he will have support from everyone from the bottom of the chain.Remember one more thing, you have to only pull the person just below your level but not the person on level 1.This makes the chain haphazard and doesn't help you in any manner.Instead, always prefer to force the person immediately below your level to pull a person below in order for him to make it to a higher level.
Then comes the ultimate phase of you coming to level 10.Now that there's no other level on top you can't pull a person above his level.This leads to dissatisfaction in the level 9 members.They, now, don't have any chance of making it to level 10 if they are going to support you.So they will plan to pull you down instead of you pulling them up.So in this situation comes the role of great wisdom.Pull should always work and it works here too.Make the persons down your link in the chain feel that they are going to make it to the top by building a virtual layer above you and you climbing it.What????Virtual layer??Yah, actually what you are doing is now making the pyramid leave the ground and fly off.You will get everyone below your levels to feel they reached to the next level by making the pyramid go up with collective effort.Again the pull factor plays its role here.You pull people down your link, they pull below them and so on.But surprisingly, the push comes back here.The people on level 1 will now push themselves from the ground to heights.This way a proper working system should be.
If you forget your level and think to bring everyone to your level then that will be the end of development.Always, the point to be remembered is individual is greater than a nation./So first the individual should develop, then his family, then may be his street, then the town,then district,then state and so on.But again, the individual will be at the top of this entire development face.He should be the shoot of a creeper rather than being at the root of it.
For this post, I thought I will relieve you from those Bold Quotable Quotes.
